09-06-23 Lifeline – Phone a Friend
Sometimes, well actually, most times… the only thing I need to do to stop the ruminating is to phone a friend.
Today, there was a google meeting for 2.5 hours to assist a client, work on getting remittances calculated for others, a call with the lender to discuss mortgage and accept docusign info to sign things off with them before I do it in person with the lawyer, and then a final meeting pre Ed Fest which happens on Saturday.
Afterwards I came home and made a good meal, and puzzled while I ruminated on the last item. I have been at all but one planning meeting and have added to the event in a positive way, of this I am secure. Unfortunately, I was left out by my own organization in the end. It is not the fault of all of them, just a few who do not value my part. This sat heavily with me this eventing and I finally decided to text a friend who is involved at the top and when he was able, we talked on the phone. He had observed what I was feeling and knew exactly how to use my skills. He had concerns that the bands may need someone to be their person and was glad to assign me to assist him and be that person. I also clarified how he would like the fence set up and I will be there early to ensure it happens.
I was left feeling valued and needed. I am once again looking forward to the event.
That’s what friends are for.
It was four years ago today that my besties in the UK and I attended Come From Away, in London, and I can’t imagine any piece of theatre that could move me more. I also can’t believe it was 4 years ago already!! I love and miss them dearly.
triumphgal 