triumphgal

Just another day in the life

01-15-24 Books and Board

January 15, 2024


I had a very long day of many payroll and filings and ate my breakfast, lunch and dinner all 10 minutes before our Google Meet Board meeting. One of our directors has Covid in the house so we decided to play safe. It was the first time using that method with this group of Directors and it went well. We got through 22 agenda items and made lots of plans. I found the whole day very full but got it all done and that makes me happy.

It is still very cold out so indoor tasks are the win. My new puzzle from Jake and Yumi should get me to the thaw….

01-14-24 Test Night Success!

January 14, 2024


I was rudely awoken at 2:08 am by the Hotel fire alarm sounding. The best part of all was that Emmy slept through it and it ended fairly soon. I was thinking at the time that if she woke up and it kept going, we would just pack up and leave. I was not going to stand out in the cold. When I talked to the man at the desk in the morning he said one of the roof sensors had frozen causing the false alarm. I also asked him if the hockey teams were there regularly and he said yes, them or the Cat Skiers who would have been far noisier. It is a great family hotel for sure but not if you have an early to bed light sleeper. Emmy woke me up an hour after she woke up which was pretty great. Also good that she slept until nearly 7. We went to breakfast in our jammies and I enjoyed my waffle and she, her fruit loops. I loved the great room it was in with the lovely fire going. I was only slightly unnerved by the croquet mallets in the golf bag on the hearth a la The Overlook Inn.

After eating we went for a swim again. There were a few more kids there this time, but a good time was had by all. There was a Mom I was chatting with when her young daughter asked me why I had an emoji on my shoulder. Hahaha, when I got my first tattoo, a winking happy face, I had to go get a Hallmark card to show the artist as all he had was a gaping head would happy face. Many times over the years I was asked what the significance of my happy face with a black eye was, lol. She also loved my dragonfly. Both her comments made me smile.

Em and I got out in time for a short Sauna and shower in time to pack up, dry our hair and check out. I received a call from Earth’s Own that I had been charged for an extra beverage by accident. That was pretty great service, and fortunate that I was still in town. We met Danika with Gwen and Thea at SushiWood after picking up the missing beverage. Danika treated us to a great meal. We sorted out more details about the upcoming trip. It was nice to spend time with smiling Gwen and I can’t believe Thea began to crawl yesterday at 7 months.

I stopped at the BC Liquorstore in Fernie on the way home to pick up a bottle of Amrut Fusion for $130. It shall be used for special nights. The drive home was uneventful, talked with a client on the way and enjoyed the beautiful weather. I guess Missy was perfectly happy that I was gone as she never even ran out to meet me when I got home. The cold helps. I open the door and she just sniffs the air and moves away from the door.

I relaxed and puzzled while watching NYAD. It was worth watching. Amazing what trauma can drive one to. The performances were excellent and odd to be watching something that happened clearly in my lifetime/memory.

01-13-24 A Night at the Stanford

January 13, 2024


I was awake at 9 and when I heard the temperature, I did not want to get out of bed. My home is wonderfully cozy though and the pipes didn’t freeze so it was up into a hot shower before my ABC zoom.

Had a good visit with the Hearndens, Woodmans, Madisons, and Keyes for an hour and a half or so. Funny that three trips to Ecuador and Galapagos are planned. Madisons soon, Woodmans in March and me in September. There was much discussion about the potential danger. They all wowed over the deal I got for my trip. It was nice to catch up and I look forward to seeing Craig and Lorraine when they meet me in Disneyland for a couple days. They look forward to meeting my family as well. I truly have been blessed by the friendships retained from that trip to Peru in 2013. There had been unrest before that trip too, but look at all the joy that has come from it. I am so glad I went. It is a shame that we are all taking separate trips as that would have been the perfect one for us to all go on together.

When I got ready and was leaving, I saw that there was a circle of footprints in my yard. I am going to hope it was the neighbour a couple of doors down coming to capture their Tom cat and take it back home. Easy to see its tracks coming from their house and trying to get into mine. I have actually blocked the cat door completely now though and Missy doesn’t want to go out in this cold anyway.

It was very cold to stop and fill up the tank, but the sky is so gorgeous, and except for a few Kilometer stretch, the highway was clear getting me safely to my clients in Fernie. And what a gorgeous store it is! The new manager Amber is lovely as well. I picked up a bunch of beverages while I was there for when I get home.

I met Malcolm and Emmy at Canadian Tire and after a short time there we went to the grocery store for snacks and switched Emmy and her gear into my car. We checked into the Stanford Resort at 2:30, unpacked and explored the resort. We did have a good laugh when we found the star from her nose on the bottom of my boot. She had lost it when we left the grocery store. We spent some loonies and twoonies in the game room, and enjoyed appetizers in the Tandoor Grill. Emmy is quite the little observational kid. She is so much beyond her 6 years and we had some great conversations. She was entranced by the restaurant, choosing our table based on the flowers. When it wobbled, we were pleased that the server offered us a private table and even swapped the flowers just for Emmy. She had her first Shirley Temple drink and loved it.

Back to the room we went to get into our bathing suits. Emmy had the idea that because we both had new ones I should change in the bathroom while she changed near her bed and then we would have the big reveal. She was so sweet and complimentary about mine and she was cute as a button in hers. We went and spent an hour and half in the pool and for all but 15 minutes of it we had the entire place to ourselves. We went on the water slide, had swimming games and challenges, and even went out for a hot tub in the cold. We both made the mistake of touching the metal railing and our fingers stung for a bit. I showed her how to make crazy hairdos by messing it up as it froze. She told me it was a little bit hard to tell if mine was frosty as it was already a lot white. We then rushed back in to get in the pool for a bit longer before hitting the Sauna. It wasn’t warm enough so it was back to the room for hot showers. Ms E went first and left the shower on for me to get in. She had put the plug in and turned it to full hot, the little monkey. After the showers she did say that my hair is mostly white only on top and mostly dark everywhere else. She must have decided that needed clarifying.

We got ourselves down to the restaurant just as all the hockey players and families were arriving back. That was fortunate as we got our food fairly quickly. Unfortunately mine was terrible and the server was too busy to get back to us. I just enjoyed my Amrut Fusion single malt and the good conversations with Emmy as she ate. They did not charge me and I wonder if they knew something was up as she immediately said it was a new box of Shrimp when I said they were rubbery and fishy tasting. I tried two to be sure but that was it. Fortunately we had lots of snacks back at the room.

As we were leaving the room earlier I saw Kendra, who I used to work with at the firm, coming out of the room across the hall. After swimming, as we were heading back to our room, there a Dad and two young boys walking ahead of us. The older of the two kept turning to look at us so I said Hi. He stopped and said “Emmy?”. It was their downstairs neighbour’s from before they moved to Elkford. It seems that the place is teaming with very young hockey players from Kimberley and Cranbrook. They have mostly behaved well and I can buffer the sound in the halls with the TV while Emmy sleeps but at 9:15 there was a terrible loud ruckus right outside the door. I opened it and quietly asked that they just not yell outside our door please as my 6 year old granddaughter was sleeping. The older of the bunch, maybe 10, immediately apologized and it has been reasonable since. I must remember to ask if there are teams staying in hotels when I book them.

She took her very last ADHD med today having been weaned off them. She told me that makes her happy. She fully explained to me the two different melatonin she has, one melts in her mouth to help her get to sleep and the other she swallows to help her stay asleep. She easily went to bed on time and has been asleep for nearly 3 hours now. I’d best get some sleep. We are both really looking forward to travelling now.

01-12-24 Jesus Christ Superstar

January 13, 2024


Tonight was so much fun that I don’t even recall the entire day. It was ridiculously cold, -31 when I woke up at 8:30 an according to Google, felt like -39 by the time I got home. My fingers were frozen just trying to open and close my metal gate when I got home. I need to make a better practice of wearing gloves.

I met the group of Rotary peeps at Fire & Oak for dinner at 5:30 and had a delicious Mushroom Risotto along with the good conversations especially with Robin and Karen at my end of the table. It was funny when Laurie and Rob showed up and were seated at the booth next to me. We had a good laugh as we had rescheduled our dinner to last night so I could attend this one tonight. I really am happy to be part of this social service group. Seems that I may have finally found my groove.

We went to the show at Key City and it was very interesting. It was very well done, especially for a community production of non-professional actors. There were several roles that I was especially entranced by including that of the very talented humans playing Jesus, Mary Magdalene, Judas and Pilate. The guy who played Pilate moved me with his rendition of “I dreamt I met a Galilean” as it is one of my two favourite songs from the show. The young woman who sang “I Don’t Know How to Love Him”, killed it. I am so honoured to know these humans in my daily even if peripherally. It was fun to see the sewing work I had done as well, including the brocade on the dresses and the scarves and gold accents around the black gowns. Ben Phillips stole the show as usual with his over the top portrayal of Herod. I was very judgy though and found it hard to just get lost in it. It is not one of my fave musicals. I find myself filling in the blanks and wondering if someone didn’t know the Biblical story, would they understand it. It was all in all a lovely evening watching old friend with new ones.

01-11-24 Man, it’s cold out there!

January 11, 2024


I enjoyed today, well.. except the temperature!! Started cold and ended colder, and we aren’t nearly the coldest in the province.

I split the workday up with a Rotary Lunch at the Heritage Inn. I had a very nice group at my table and the whole room had a good laugh when I was presented with my name badge. They had worried so much about getting the accent on my e that they must have stolen an L

The presentation was fabulous. Two ladies from Community Connections came and showed us a PowerPoint of the project in the works for Cranbrook. There will be a Hydroponic Growcer (that is not a spelling mistake, look up Growcer, very cool!) and automatic composter in a converted Rail Boxcar. The business model is solid and will go a way towards locally sourced foods and sustainability. There is so much more to it, but it will be quite the project.

At 5 I met Laurie at Ella’s Jamaican for a lovely long visit and dinner. She really is an amazing client become friend. We had so many funny little random conversations in a lovely atmosphere over ridiculously good food.

Once home, out of the cold and the wind, I puzzled a little more and watched the last of season 1 of The Last of Us. Laurie told me that it had been filmed in Alberta. She did not know who Pedro Pascal is though!!

01-10-24 Wednesday Respite

January 10, 2024


I took all the time I needed to feel ready to face the day. I am finally sinking into the appreciation of being self-employed. Boy that too a long time to let my mind understand and let go of the pressure of the 9-5 work day. By definition it is structured and inefficient for me. I need to let the things that are wrong with my system work themselves out in the morning, I need to let my night owl self be happy, I need to not stress that I meet the world’s expectations of a bookkeeper. It works better for me to go in late and stay longer.

Today I worked, then I picked up Rae-Anne and we went to FireHall for lunch. I was gifted a bunch of gift cards and she eats there free as an employee of the greater owners. We had a great catch up. It had been sitting with me since our Christmas Eve discussion. Seems all is good and the food was too. I redeemed 200 points from my Ale Trail App to get a glass which I love. It snowed big fluffy snow while we were there.

Back at the office I got so much done, including my volunteer stuff and then decided to call it a day. I have been puzzling and watching The Last of Us and now finally feel tired.

01-08-24 Monstrous Monday

January 8, 2024


This day was so full, I was stressing out. I was also weirdly fragile and exhausted after the fear of what went down with Gwen yesterday. I have this weird line I walk between need to know and respect privacy. I wanted to reach out but knew so many would be that I tried to be patient. It was such a relief when Danika texted that Gwen was walking around and had more energy and they were going to release her so that the family could get home before dark. Such a huge relief!

I did get a lot done today in spite of interruptions and stayed to get more volunteer work done as well. Once I made it home, I puzzled and started watching ‘The Last of Us’. After the first episode, I wasn’t sure it was a good choice before bed. At the end of the 3rd episode I was feeling the poignancy and it was a good mood to retire on.

It has been challenging to start so early on VIMF recruitment with all that is going on but already over 20 have responded positively. That’s awesome! Now I just need to make manuals for the different positions in order to have all the questions answered in advance.

Good night, all!

01-07-24 Bonus Grand Worries

January 7, 2024


I finally slept my cold away, mostly. I got up and had a shower, stripped the bed and did a few more chores. Thankfully I did as I got a call that darling Gwen was brought by ambulance from Elkford and is in the ICU. Last night she managed to climb up on the counter, get in the cupboard and open the child proof caps on Emmy’s meds. She managed to get a lot of them down and things were very scary for a while. Poor Malcolm was at work in the coal mine and raced down as soon as he got the call. They all ended up here as they were, dirty clothes and all. Thankfully the worst of it passed and she is still very tired and under observation but it will all clear her system and should not have any lasting effect. She is clinging to her Dad and the whole family is exhausted. I visited with them for a bit at the hospital and then stopped to see Emmy and Thea at their other grandparents. Emmy and I have a plan to stay in Fernie at a hotel next Saturday night as a trial run for the trip. We are both looking forward to it.

After the visits, the shock wore off and I was shaking but stopped at the office for a few hours to get my spreadsheet work done for FPPAS new website and send out the invites to past volunteers for VIMF. It cheered me up to get so many responses so quickly. This is very early for me but the online volunteer registration begins on the 15th of January, earlier than ever.

Once home, I finished my chores, started a new puzzle as I finished the last one that was surprisingly more challenging than I thought it would be. I got the message that Gwen is doing better and there will be an update tomorrow. Now I can rest. Oh, and there was a decent amount of snow in the wee hours. It was so pretty when the sky was blue.

01-06-24 Gin Martini

January 6, 2024


I think Gin Martinis cured my cold, but may have made me stumble. I have spent the day eating as necessary, giving empties to Lukas for his Disney fundraiser with the help of Bill, and puzzling. After a certain time, I poured Gin Martinis and found my nose stopped running and I felt better. I may pinball off the walls to my bedroom, but I am settled in just after 7. I thoroughly enjoyed watching ‘You Are What You Eat, the Twin Experiment’ on Netflix. It truly hit me in the feels as I have battled with this for years.

The funny thing about Gin, it hits like marijauna, suddenly, supplely, lovely. Good night dear followers

01-05-24 A Late Start

January 5, 2024


I had set my alarm but still felt like dirt, so I slept a little longer. I then dragged myself out of bed and made it to the office by 11. My phone had blown up with texts and email by then. I responded to what I could and then buckled down to get remittances finished for the year. CRA was down for part of what I had to do. That was frustrating. I did make some folks very happy and feel good leaving it at that for the week. I am going to take the time this weekend to just rest and sleep as I need it, drink plenty of tea and maybe make soup. For tonight I am enjoying Gin Martinis and watching The OA, sweet dreams to you all.

01-04-24 The OA

January 4, 2024


I just finished Part 1, 8 episodes of the OA. It was intriguing and now I shall begin the next Part, 8 final episodes. Today was heavy concentration work broken up by a zoom in to the Rotary Luncheon. Missy was happy to see me home by 7. I made a good Hello Fresh soup and tried to puzzle but my brain is done. Bed it is….2024, this better be the first and last sick of the year. Can’t believe I didn’t get sick going to Vegas or all the other parts of the world I visited and managed to get the family contagion.

01-02-24 Payroll Day

January 2, 2024


I suffer a lot of things relatively easily, but I get undone by a runny nose. I am so tired of this head cold and am manifesting clear sinuses and good health SOON. Danika and I are trying to make a plan for me to stay with Emmy at a hotel in Fernie soon as a trial run. I have to get the back broken on both my cold and my work to do so. I did get 4 big payroll done and that feels good. I got home after 7:30, puzzled a bit and am tucked in to try and sleep this nasty away.

01-01-24 A New Year

January 1, 2024


I am not feeling well, too run down and have been around germs. I am still fighting the feeling that I have a bad cold but also just never felt awake today at all. I went to the kids for a seafood party with Croziers and Greys. It was nice to see everyone and they enjoyed the prawns and beverage I brought. I wasn’t great company though as I am too tired so I came home by 7:30 and am tucked in early, a good start to what will be a busy year. All the best to all of you!

123123 Jesus Christ Superstar Gala

January 1, 2024


I puttered and puzzled and finished Better Call Saul, enjoying one of my new breakfasts.

I then took down all my inflatables and got ready to go to the theatre. I dressed in my new embroidered bell bottoms, snakeskin boots and sparkly eyeshadow and threw my original roller skate key on its shoestring around my neck.

I was there just before 6 and rolled into home around 1:30. It was a good party and my feet are killing me! I enjoyed watching friends and acquaintances having a good time and came home with some delicious leftovers from the Heidout catering which I can’t wait to share with my family tomorrow.

My only resolution is to do more of what made me happy in 2023 and that was travel. So far, three great trips will make that happen. Whenever I get down at work, I will remember that is why I do it.

12-30-23 Poker Winnings

December 31, 2023


I finished binging Beef last night and it was good. Today I discovered there was a season of Better Call Saul that I hadn’t watched and it became my watch of the day. I made good headway on my puzzle as I watched. I tried on my outfit for tomorrow night’s 70s themed gig at Key City, did chores and then made red lobster biscuits to take to the annual big poker night at Landon’s. There were 30 of us and it cost $25. I had a great night, came out with 32.50 as I had so many bounties for taking out others, and split 8th place with Tyler. That was pretty great for 5 hours of good company and entertainment.

It ice rained while we were in there and I took things very slowly on the way home once I deiced it. Now I am finishing my show and sipping some Crown as I drank my nonalcoholic bevies at the game.

One of the funnier moments was when Rob Amsing came over to our table and saw my big stack and called it the Marnée Curse. I suspect it is because I do manage to take out a lot of people without rebuying at all and the pot gets bigger for the end 3 people to split. Also, every one I take out gets me a $5 bounty chip to cash in at the end. I usually manage to at least get my buyin back.

12-29-23 Last Day of work 2023

December 29, 2023


Stayed up until the wee hours finishing watching The Watcher. I didn’t realize that it is based on a true story. It is an odd Hallmark/Horror movie in 7 segments.

Didn’t wake up until 10, started watching ‘Beef’. It is very very different from the other.

I got ready and headed to Encore as I knew the kids would all be there bowling. It was great to see the Knight girls. I left and went to the car wash on the way to the office to run the last payroll and do my billing. After I finished, I ran home and got the shampoo and conditioner I’d won to give to Margot and the Harry Potter collection of Wills to watch later.

I got there and everyone was on computers separately playing a game together. Margot eventually came down from a rest and 6 of us all played a fun bubble tea game. After that we watched the 5th movie in the HP franchise. Most of the way through thankfully, it was time for the kids to get antsy and so it was annoying to try to hear until someone yelled ‘Hush’

I was home by 8:30 and ran a hot bath with a CBD bath bomb. I watched 2 episodes of Beef and am now in bed watching more. I am very much enjoying it.

12-28-23 Galapagos Here We Come

December 29, 2023


I went in to the office and looked at all the info from the Travelbestbets site and emailed back and forth with Shayla, the very helpful agent. Once I had all the info together, I sent it to Tracey and she committed to going from September 12-22. Then it was off to the Rotary lunch where as of yesterday I am officially a member. It was a nice social time and I even got a fine on my first day as we all did to wrap up the year. The made up fun fines, often $2 and the Happy Bucks that people put on their accounts to pay to make announcements are a cute way of raising funds and entertaining everyone. I look forward to what the future brings serving with this group. A

fter the meeting I dropped off my recycling and took Mom’s clothes to the Mission Thrift. Then, it was back to the office to finish booking the trip and apply for my passport renewal as it expires in July 2024. I will get photos and send it in after we are back from California as I don’t want to risk not getting it back. I used my Avion Visa to put the deposit on the trip and Tracey will pay me as she can as she is waiting for a refund from her cancelled cruise. She kindly offered to pay towards any interest we accumulate, which is awesome.

I managed to get the last two files done for GST filing for 2023! Also got a jump doing one of the two payroll due tomorrow. Once I was done James was also finished cleaning at the office and we headed to Encore to shoot some pool. It was great to see Roger’s sister, Margot and her husband, Rob there, up from Olympia Washington. I hope to see their girls tomorrow afternoon.

James and I played 6 games of which I won two, he won two and he sewered and lost two. It was fun and the place was noisy and busy. I offered to buy him dinner at East Side Mario’s and it was delicious. I dropped him back at Encore and came home to puzzle and watch more episodes of The Watcher. It is impossible not to watch. Thank goodness there is only 7 episodes all together as I seem to be on a binge.

I am so very excited to go on both big trips next year. Something to look forward to is very important to my mental health.