I puttered at some chores and watched shows after having a sleep in. I wavered back and forth with social anxiety about an invitation to a party a half hour away in Meadowbrook. It is an annual event but this was my first invitation. The invite was actually for last night, to come and camp for the weekend and have lobster and prime rib. I finally took my recycling out, picked up makings for a big Caesar salad, packed my cooler and headed there. I am so glad I did. It was a lovely smaller group as last night was 80+ and I was able to have a few very nice longer conversations with folks I have known casually for a few years and with others I haven’t met before. There were lobster left over from last night and I decided to pay and enjoy one. Tom Bungay, an east coaster, who brought in the lobster along with his wife Verna, cleaned it for me and showed me all the inner workings. It was filling but I still think, overrated, as my favourite is Dungeness Crab. I am glad to have had that experience though and the music playing was wonderful. So many old and new friends doing what they love for our enjoyment. Next year I plan to camp for the weekend and just relax.
Today felt really off. I went to the office and got some things done and then popped off to the salon for waxing and then back to the office to work on a file with deadlines before heading to get my nails done. I was lucky to get both those appointments last minute and loved being taken care of by Ireland first and then the two brothers at the nail salon. Minh helped pick out what he knew I would like and then Lee did them. I love that they match my jeep more or less and go with my ring
I had to go back to the office and work on getting a bunch of wage subsidy paperwork done for a client and was nearly done when I was sent pictures of Rae and the boys at the fair in town. I had forgotten all about it so I finished up and headed there. I am so glad I did as I got to ride the Ferris Wheel with Will and Sawyer. Neither of them likes heights but they trust going with me and I love that ride. I bought mini donuts to bring to my poker game while I was there.
Last stop of the evening was my poker league. It was at Galen’s and outdoors which was lovely. I was doing pretty well but was last one out before the two tables merged. I went all in on a straight and Jesse threw down his cards saying he only had two pair. Unfortunately for me he threw them face up and the others noticed he actually had a full house. That was a very big up and down. Sigh. Oh well, I am home relaxing and enjoying a Crown and the ups and downs of the day are over now. I look forward to a good sleep which I have been having since I got my new pillow.
Today was a a whole lot of dodging back and forth, running around from item to item on my list but it was so full of good that I am very happy. I met with mom and her release team in the morning to make a plan for her to get out on June 2nd, I went and got her walker from her apartment so she can get used to using it. Back to the office after picking up my new glasses, putting in my prescription, and hitting up staples and pet valu. I got a couple hours work in before picking up Mom for her first time out since March 10th. She got in my car more easily than the last few times in March and I took her to the hospital to meet the ENT. Dr. Mordon was very sweet and he said her lump is benign and no surgery is necessary. Even if it is not benign it is a slow grower and at her age there is no risk. Should she have any symptoms, we will worry about it but now that is all behind her. YAY! She was tired out after our adventure but I believe is looking forward to getting home safely and not afraid of the car ride any longer. From there I went to a client’s and was there for over 5 hours. By 8, I was done. I told him I would finish up soon but I just had to leave. I love driving around in the jeep as the lilacs all over town smell heavenly.
My day was spent entirely earnings free but I cleared a great deal off my plate for both FPPAS and VIMF. There were phone calls and connections and much accomplished. I had a zoom call with an agent from VolunteerLocal, a software that I purchased for $200 US to schedule my crew with, that will allow them to log in and approve the times they are scheduled and get text messages to let them know they are due to their positions. I hope it works as it should save me time in the long run, once it is set up. At 4:30 I headed to Fenwick and Baker for the Chamber of Commerce restaurant take-over. It was a lot of fun to sit with Kirsten, and Layla and learn more about each other. While I was there I got a text that Gene’s rugby team had blown away the competition at their rugby final and are on to provincials. We all met at Encore to celebrate. They will play in Abbotsford at month’s end. It was fun to hang out with the grands and play skeeball and basketball.
I have been stalling about having an honest talk with ‘the guy’ so when he messaged to get together tonight I said yes and we sat out in the yard and had a good honest talk. It is hard to tell someone that they don’t add enough to your day to warrant being part of it. I was honest and straight forward, and he was receptive and apologetic. We have a date planned for Sunday night. We shall see.
Another very full day. Got to the office to get the last of 15 payroll due between yesterday and today. That is… a lot. And after the weekend I was tired so I had to extra review everything, but I got it done. In between, I ran home and sold my pool, and made payments for clients. By 4 I was done at the office and ran over to Key City to host the last night of Fisher Peak Performing Artists Winter Ale series. It was a packed house and great energy. Tenise Marie opened the show. She is and Assyrian Canadian from Argenta BC and a simply lovely singer songwriter. She even performed, for the first time, a song in her own language. Even not knowing the words, the song was beautiful. She played an Oud, said Oood. Her lovely human energy was like a warm hug. The audience loved her. The headliners were Wild Honey. They have a pretty great pedigree. Jessica is Rob Niedermayer’s wife and Barney Bentall’s daughter. Shelby Knudsen is and author and talented songstress. Laura Cain is a talented violinist and songwriter. Between them they bring beautiful harmonies and a type of ‘sister’ power that resonates. Between them, they also have 8 daughters and set a fabulous example. They were joined by Ryland Moranz and Sammy (omg. I forgot his last name). Just before my intro of the all female trio, I told them I was going to introduce them as Wild Honey and the Bees. They loved it. So did the audience. It truly was a wonderful way to end the Winter Ale Series. I had Jordon and Heidi from Fisher Peak Brewing Co, our major sponsors, do the draw for the season’s door prize, a signed poster and swag from the season’s artists. After the show I chatted with Jessica that about the fact that I was fangirling over her husband being in the audience. I told her about my first Duck’s jersey and how the team brought me joy all the way through my pregnancy and single motherhood. She told me I was to grab her next time and say, “Hey Jessica, introduce me to Rob!” I am going to take her up on that.
Tenise MarieDoor PrizeYes, that is Rob on the leftWild HoneyDaughters in the frontRyland Moranz
Up early, taking out garbage, watering garden and off to the office. Calls were coming in before I even left. Much to accomplish when the 15th lands on a Monday as the payroll list is magnified. Got all I could do done before heading to meet my friend Barbara who is doing a one woman show and wanted some advice. I am going to be her Emcee/Stage Manager for the show and look forward to supporting her. She is one of the most interesting people I know and want to encourage her creativity in telling her story in spoken word and actions. Had a nice bite at Fenwick and Baker and then headed back to the office for our Board meeting. We discussed so many things and made plans for Summer Sounds which we hope to have as an open carry space for our beer garden. I admit to getting frustrated as the meeting went long. It was good to finally get home. My left arm is still giving me grief and the pain was starting to get impossible to ignore. My replacement pillows arrived today. It’s amazing how they can package product to send these days. Two Queen sized pillows in one small package. I can’t wait to try one tonight. And it doesn’t even smell bad. I did sell both my iPhone 12 Pro and my pool today (as long as they pick it up tomorrow). Grateful for both as I have some dental work to pay for!
I slept a lovely sleep and enjoyed a bit of a relaxing morning, doing laundry and enjoying my coffee. Will and Sawyer were dropped off before noon to earn a little cash doing yard work. It was completely out of control and between the three of us, we got a lot done including raking, mowing and restringing my fairy lights in the tree. I had them wrapped around the maple tree and worried about its growth. Last year I had them around the willow and it grew fast enough to break the wires in the lights. I look forward to how they will look in the dark. I jumped in the shower and then rushed to drop off the boys and meet Deanne, Rae-Anne and Ashlée at Aivia Nails for pedicures booked by the girls as a gift. I was pleased to drink the ‘coffee’ Ashlée brought for me which was really Rye and Coke and the massage chair was awesome. The whole environment was lovely and a decent price. I would definitely go back. From there we strolled the mall where I picked up a Grandma Shark mug for Tracey and a cute flamingo shirt. Once we left there I went and dropped off all the things from the festival that I had in my car and then picked up Arby’s for Mom and Judy (Roger’s Mom). I found Judy in the dining room drinking coffee and brought her up to Mom’s room for dinner and had a nice visit with the two of them. Final stop was Bill & Deanne’s for a pork roast and scalloped potato dinner with the family. It was nice to sit in a perfect temperature on the deck and visit. Once again I am content and tired, a good combo.
Up at 7, got myself ready and headed to pick up fruit and veg trays at Safeway and then ice at Arby’s before heading down to the park. There was a beehive of activity going on to get things ready for the Children’s Festival from 10-4. It was a hot but light breezy day and everyone seemed in good moods. I really enjoyed the day and it went relatively smooth. There was one incident where a 12-14 year old boy completely disrespected everyone and directly, me. I calmly made him comply with my requests for fixing what he had done and he was a little snot. It is hard to understand how kids have so little respect for others, especially their elders. There were also a myriad of special moments, including the hoop dancers from Invermere. These young to very young indigenous dancers showed such a level of commitment and determination to do each of their parts that it was inspirational. I am so happy to be involved at the committee level with this group, It was a very long day though and my left knee is throbbing. I am considering wearing my brace if it feels this way tomorrow.
I came home just before 6, showered up and Tracey and I went to Encore for a DIY comedy show. We sat with Bill and Deanne enjoying the company and a couple beer. The Emcee, Scott Porteus was facing a tough room as there were pool tables between the stage and the audience and the sound system wasn’t clear at first. He did well handling it with aplomb. There were three comedians, the first being Mike Payne. His comedy was a whole lot of blue which was a bit awkward as there were tweener aged kids finishing up bowling who left during his set, passing behind him as he was talking about eating out ass. I found the shock factor unnecessary. The second one was Herbert Henries (Scott’s Alterego) of Canada’s Got Talent fame. He does a Comedy Dangerist act that is quite charming and I enjoyed him on the show and in person. The Headliner was Frank Russo. He has an infectious smile and has polished his craft. I would see him again.
I want his shirt
After the show, we chatted with the guys outside about the challenges of the show. They are off to Nakusp next and then Salmo and basically all around the Kootenays before hitting Kelowna and other major centres. I would be interested to hear how they fair in other small venues. We talked about the talk going on during their sets and I had to agree that it was annoying for us as an audience as well. I wonder if they would have had a better experience at a place like the Stage Door where people would be quiet and interact when asked. The energy would have been better. It was good for a first go at entertainment though at Encore. I suspect they will learn much from it, just as we did at the festival today. It was funny to see the children’s performers at the comedy show. They seemed to be guests of the brewmaster. I picked up my monthly two free Crowlers tonight and look forward to enjoying over the next while. I like the packaging as well.
Now I am very tired and glad I don’t have to set and alarm tomorrow.
I had a zoom meeting with a new client from out of town at 10 this morning, dealt with all my email and VIMF invites to new applicants and then I headed to Rotary Park to see what was happening with set up for the children’s festival. I arrived just as they were struggling to put together the big party tent for the Green Room and joked that the Foreman was here. I promptly whipped out my phone and found a diagram and told them the layout of all the poles. It went up in no time at all and everyone was grateful. Timing is everything. I will print the directions for next year. I left then to go see mom and read the paperwork they had left about the Power of Attorney and Health Directives, etc. while she was in physio. She had read it too and we ticked off the things she needed to ask the Notary to draw up. We had a nice visit and made a plan with the nurse that I will pick up Mom in my car to take her to the ENT at the hospital next Thursday and if it is too tough on her they will bring her back by ambulance. It will be a good test run as they think she will be able to go home on the 26th. They also think she will need a walker for the rest of her life now. She seems in good spirits and is eager to get back to her community at Joseph Creek.
I picked up more beverages from Selkirk which I dropped at home and then headed to the park again. The weather is perfect and I helped put together some cool wood trees with Velcro on them for messages and then just made myself useful wherever I was needed. It is a great team to work with. It was fun to sit in the chill out tent and blow up balloons with Monica and learn more about each other.
Tonight was Pretty for the People playing with the Amuse Troupe performing in between, There was a stilt walker and hula hoops and all kinds of fun that all the little kids just loved. After the band played their second set to a well packed crowd, the Troupe did a fire show and it was a lot of fun for everyone. The music was great and sounded fabulous through the new equipment that Fisher Peak Performing Artists Society loaned to them as a major sponsor. Matt was the Audio guy and he did a great job even with us panicking him by changing the speaker set up with half an hour to go before show time.
I like being the ‘see a need, fill it’ person. I was able to observe and assist where needed. I even got to make an announcement and welcome the band back. Everyone was in such a good mood and I can;t wait until tomorrow. I do have to get up early to pick up food at Safeway and ice at Arby’s by 8:30 and be down there to help set up the hospitality/green room for the 10-4 Festival.
I spent good chunks of the day reaching out to local establishments for donations to feed the volunteers and performers at the children’s festival this weekend. I was overwhelmed at the kind response by so many. I was able to gather Pepsi products from Selkirk Beverages, a gift card from Safeway to buy fruit trays, yogurt and mini muffins from my friend Ward, the Gordon Food Service guy, and promise of 5 pizzas from Canadian 2 for 1 on the day of. My co-gatherer, Amy, also had Domino’s Pizza promise 19 pizzas and Cobbs will treat us to scones and buns. Along with coffee and a water station, I feel our volunteers will be able to fuel up easily during the day. It really was nice to take the time to chat at each location and show appreciation directly. We will also thank them on our socials. Honestly, this is a lovely group of people doing something fun for children and families and even the weather is promising to cooperate!
In between, I also got some work done and all my necessary reports done for our next Board meeting which will be that much closer to Summer Sounds debuting on its new night of the week.
From 5-7 I pulled a shift at Arby’s. My last one was February 12th so I was a bit concerned I would be rusty. It was not too busy but I was necessary so I was glad I accepted the shift. It always makes me happy working the drive-thru window, taking payment and giving back sustenance and smiles. It was nice to work with two new guys as well, They seemed quite serious but I managed to make them laugh along the way.
I came home and heated up some gyozas which are light and delicious and then watched The Voice and Canada’s Got Talent. A little light entertainment was just what I needed.
I followed up for the third week in a row with the notary’s office about Mom’s power of attorney. The last two times they said they would have the person working on the file get back to me. This time she said she couldn’t tell me anything so I had Mom call them. They said they were swamped and would have someone get back to her. How ridiculous. She then called me later to say they had dropped off the paperwork during dinner and it was a book that she wanted me to come go through with her. I will do that tomorrow. Funny how they came out of the swamp so fast….
I had much interaction with people by phone and email today as I dealt with clients and volunteering responsibilities. It wears me down some days more than others. I feel bad for ‘the guy’ as I have nothing left in me and he is not especially good at recognizing that which is somewhat fair as he doesn’t know me well enough. I had to tell him that I need to push pause this week due to my commitments. Next week doesn’t look a whole lot better but I haven’t even made it to see my Mom the last two days. Tonight I am watching shows and playing Candy Crush and trying to put the world away for a moment.
I was highly amused when I got to work and read the fun board on the fridge. Nikki updates the puns regularly and this one was cute but I actually laughed out loud when I read the note at the bottom as ‘have a lonely day’. I am sure it was to say lovely but it was so appropriate.
I got caught up on email and then it was time to head to Baker Hill Dental for a CT. Modern dentistry is quite amazing. The intention is to make a plan for what to do with my broken off tooth.
When it was done they gave me the images on a flash drive and I took it to my dentist across town. As the first dentist was only a 6 minute walk from my office and it was a sunny day, I decided to walk. I decided to walk to my own dentist after and had a nice loop through town. After I dropped off the drive I was making my way back and realized I hadn’t put my jewelry back on so I stopped on the sidewalk, put my earrings in and attempted to put my nose ring back in. It was not going easily and I realized I looked like I was picking my nose. I stepped into the pawn shop and asked to look in a mirror to put it back in but suddenly it was gone. I didn’t find it anywhere so I stopped at Hemp 2000 and bought a new one and put it in while I was there. Back to the office and much work to do until I was just done and wrapped it up for another day.
I brought home my Amazon package and was not happy to see that the box of alcohol free Pinot Grigio had clearly been broken open when it was put in my parcel. I unpacked it and was happy to see they were all there but some were banged up or dented. I made a plan to go for a walk with the guy later and then made some dinner.
It appears that Missy likes the long grass but I will have to get mowing it soon before it becomes too difficult.
He showed up and we walked over to and around the far side of Elizabeth Lake. It was the perfect temperature and the birds were in abundance and loud. I have enjoyed some of my time spent with him but I worry that we are already running out of things to talk about. Keeping it casual is great for the short term but there definitely is a gap in our life experiences and interests. I am trying not to overthink it. Just enjoy it for now. And it was a nice day for a walk.
I climbed into a bath with a book this morning. This is something I have never done before work before. I knew the day could be vulnerable for me emotionally so I started off kind to myself. It was a tough start to begin with as I had realized far too late that I forgot my special pillow at the Airbnb in Calgary. It would cost too much to ship it and it is probably time for a new one… but I missed it terribly last night. Once I got myself together I packed all Mom’s treats together and headed to Green Home to drop them off. She was in Physio so I just set up everything for her to enjoy; 2 new spy novels, baby cucumbers, Baby Bell cheese, Green grapes and slippers. Off to the office I went.
The day was so full and so much needed intense concentration. I was especially not happy to get a call from one of my dear client friends that he is in hospital with pancreatitis and we were trying to do his payroll confirmations over the phone. I pray he recovers quickly as he is a fair and successful businessman, one whom I want to see succeed.
I worked on MusicFest things for an hour before heading to see Mom, knowing her dinner would be done. We had a great visit, even getting to see the NHL Draft lottery together. Sadly my Ducks came second so miss out on Bédard who everyone wants. I will have to watch in June for the actual draft to see how it all pans out.
Once I got home, I made a meal from HF and was about to sit down for it when the guy called. I wanted to visit with a good man tonight as is my tradition but I am not sure he got the depth of feeling I was having so I declined his invitation to come over. This was not a booty call night. It has been 19 years tonight since my Dad crashed his float plane and died. Not a year goes by that I don’t wish I could have had more time. The closer I get to his age at death, 64, the more I think I feel it. As I was making my dinner I received a forwarded message via Rae-Anne from Morgan Turner who I had completely forgotten took pics of me on my 60th at the Encore preview night. He happened to send them today, how perfect was that!?! Pics of me, in my Dad’s Willys, on the anniversary of his death… and I love them!!
Dinner was delicious and I love the new cutting board and accessory dishes I scored at Ikea
With my Hello Fresh came tea samples from the UK that profess to be the most popular. I shall leave it up to the besties to weigh in and will try it soon to know how I feel about it
It was nice to come home tonight to the beautiful flowers I bought at Costco and to have enjoyed some at the office.
I had no intention of talking to anyone tonight. I am peopled out and was planning to go to bed early but… here it is nearly midnight and I have been Facebook responding, messaging and FaceTiming. Seems the universe, or my guardian angel Dad, knew what I really needed. Love you all… good night.
I did not have a good sleep as the bed was hard and the air as hot. Got myself up and showered and when the girls were ready we all headed off to Nellie’s Break The Fast. It was in a new location and is one of two remaining of what once was a thriving bunch of 7 restaurants in the Calgary area. Back in 2002, Lee (my husband at the time), Jake, Ashlée and I were part of Trading Places, a novel reality show in Canada. We traded lives with the family who owned and ran the restaurants. They went to Salt Spring Island. I have all the show on my YouTube Channel. It is broken into chunks where the commercials were. Geckosgal is my channel. I was not surprised to see new owners as the previous ones had many health violations and due to many other circumstances, including Covid-19, they were either sold or shut down. The surprise was the same menu. When we arrived in Calgary, this menu was laying on the dining room table to give a hint about what I would be doing.
Breakfast was delicious and we had a nice chat with the current owner about our history with the business. From there we three walked around and discovered some interesting art. I would love to take part when it is open. I was posing under the crown doing a selfie, when a young lady walked by and said I looked gorgeous. That was a great moment in the day.
My fave pic of the weekend
Next stop was Costco where KC was happy to let us shop with her on her Dad’s card. I picked up some beautiful plants, all my favourite things and a bunch of items for Mom. We had the nicest lady, Maureen, help us through the self serve and even though it was a very busy Sunday there, we had a good experience.
From there, we said goodbye to KC at Ikea and Ash and I meandered our way through. I picked up a lovely basket, another of my favourite bath mats and we both picked up some lovely plants.
By now I am beginning to get citied out and we still needed to go back to Chinook Mall as one of the two La Vie En Rose items I bought was not a good fit. We both chose a meal at the food court. Mine was Pad See Ew and I can safely say that our local Family Thai makes a far better version. I had my first experience at Marble Slab…. OMG
The washrooms there were cool with soap, water and air dispensers at every spot. So bougie!
Now it was time to get gas and head home. Ash knows of a cheap spot and I am so glad we went there! Over 45 cents a Litre cheaper than home!
We visited a lot and then Ash had a nap as I worked our way home. The rain kept pounding down intermittently and the only spot we stopped was to see the ‘part’ on the back of a bucket we saw on the way there. We took some pics and talked to the driver who said he was waiting until Midnight to bring it to the mine. It is 2/3rds of a rock bucket and the other third is already in place awaiting it.
The rest of the drive we chatted and shared life and advice and perspective with each other. I think this is the best time we have spent together since I went to Newfoundland to visit her. I am so glad we had this time to spend together and remember how much we love each other. It was a really great weekend!! But boy howdy, I am peopled out!!!
It was too late to see Mom on her birthday but I will take her a gift and care package tomorrow
Was up and at it in time to enjoy a couple coffee and casually be ready to load the car and go. I picked up Ashlée, and enjoyed the bagel and cream cheese she had ready for me. We got coffee at McDonald’s with some full free sticker cards and then hit the road. It has been nearly a year since we have travelled in the same vehicle together and it was lovely to chat and catch up. She even shared her Japanese Oreos with me!
She took a nap while I continued listening to A Beautiful Boy on Audible. We stopped at a gas/service station with and A&W just out of Calgary to use the facilities and get something to eat and then headed to the Chinook Mall. Once we got parked we found that our entrance was right at the temporary location of Victoria Secret and we both came out with a beautiful bounty of bras, and for me, panties. Next was La Vie En Rose where I purchased a very pretty night slip. I actually got two but will be taking one back as it just doesn’t feel as awesome of a fit. I wandered up to the Bay while Ash checked out the mall. After scouring the racks I had almost given up on finding a new jean jacket when I saw a rack with a sign reading, All Women’s Levi Products 25% off with HBC Rewards card. There was only one left that fit me properly and they had my card on file by my phone number so win-win. I love it!
We drove to the AirBnB I had booked to meet KC who was down from Edmonton and already settled in. It is so nice to see her again as it has been since last July. We got ourselves together and headed to the Rec Room for the concert. In line ahead of us was a lovely lady named Diane who had brought her 85 year old Father to the concert and was going to be taking him home to Newfoundland for a visit in September. When we got in the girls noticed he didn’t have a chair so I made it my mission to find him one and it was quickly supplied by the bar back when I asked and mentioned who it was for.
Morrisey’s Private Stock opened the show and there was a broken glass on the dance floor before the first song was over. Everyone was having a good time. It was tough to stand the whole night but thank goodness we staked the square post in the middle to lean against, that really helped.
Ashlée stood in line to get us crazy good corn dogs that I am sure were 1000 calories but delicious.
There was quite a long break between bands but Shanneyganock played straight on through and were great fun. It is a shame I did not like the acoustics or mix (not entirely sure which) as it was very difficult to understand them and it had nothing to do with their accents. They also looked a little tired. I think they are at that stage of the tour. Still so great though and the audience was enthusiastic. I texted Bob Pike who played with them when I saw them and met him in St. John’s. He replied right away about being a union light guy now for the movie industry. It’s a shame, would love to see him out this way.
It was such a fun night and to learn that Bud Davidge who was playing with them wrote the Mummers song and Friends and Family made it even more special. So glad we came.
I saw the guy who looked like he may be the guy and asked if he was the promoter. Turns out he is and we talked about discussing bringing them to Cranbrook. He gave me his card and I will reach out soon. I think they will sell out in the Kootenays.
The venue was amazing, I wanted to stay and play. There were so many cool games!
I am not sure the chairs were entirely happy though
We are now all back tucked in, with ringing in our ears. I was very disappointed in myself that I forgot my Loops in my other jacket as I knew it would be loud.
Today was going to be busy and I was up early so I made my Hello Fresh meal with intention to share with a coworker. I was glad she was happy to sit and eat with me and we both enjoyed it.
I went to a client’s to help her with a software transition that I was unfamiliar with but it ended up going well and she is a wonderful personality that I enjoy helping. On the way I was very unhappy though that my Pairs blew off due to them not fitting properly with my new lenses installed. When I was done I parked far from where they blew off and walked both sides of the highway up and down to no luck. One lovely human pulled over to be sure I was okay and ask if I needed a ride or help. I let her know how much I appreciated that.
I texted the guy to let him know that he made my day with his texts each morning and he came over to my place. We had a lovely evening and it took the stress off completely as we are both on the same page about what we want and don’t, leaving no expectations or disappointments out there. Gosh, it’s good to meet someone who straight up communicates the same way I do. We are cool with this being just what it is, at its own pace and without strings. Meeting a grown ass adult and exploring a relationship that fits into our own lives is refreshing.
I am packed and ready to head out tomorrow with Ashlée to meet KC and see Shanneyganock in Calgary. Can’t wait!!
Today was very productive working with a client’s auditors for their yearend. I was quite moved when they told me that I should charge $20 and hour more than I do for my level of expertise. I have always undervalued my work and need to reevaluate things going forward. I do know what I bring to the table but can’t just hike things that much. I will have to make a plan.
I don’t want to describe exactly how my evening went but suffice to say, my first date with a man went very well and I was grinning like a giddy teenager when he dropped me off. Pizza and a walk in the woods by the lake, great conversation, and good laughs does make me want to see where this goes. It has been a long time since I have let my guard down and been open to the idea of a person in my life. I want to take it slow and not be hurt. I am attracted to him and the fact that I am 14 years older than him only phases me a little bit, lol.
Ok, so it was a day that was full of Auditors and actions. The real important stuff was that I received a message from the guy this morning wishing me a good day. It is those simple pleasures that draw me nearer. I reached out after work and we made a plan for tomorrow evening. I feel like a teenager and a dowager in the same breath. I hope the first date will get me over that and settle me into the ‘we are grown assed adults” phase.
I was given a bottle of crown by Tracey and it had a paper around its neck that had a QR code to make a free label for a bottle. I chose to make one to fit the awesome lamp that my friend Shannon made me and it arrived today! Cool.
My Hello Fresh arrived a day late and completely not cold. The ice packs were melted and the meat was only barely above room temp. I messaged the company and they credited me for the box. I cooked the pork tonight to try to salvage it and it seems to have set well. I will see how the chicken goes tomorrow!
I had a great long talk with my friend Mark tonight and he is such a good sounding board from a Man’s perspective about any red flags I may have about tomorrow. It is always good to have a friend of the opposite sex who shares so many of your virtues and perspectives.
The Dr from where Mom is staying called me today to fill me in on all the details. It is confirmed that she has small c cancer. There is not radiation needed and we expect it can be removed easily but will be confirmed when we see the ENT on the 18th. Turns out her hip is broken from her fall Wednesday night but in the same best case scenario, the orthopedic surgeon says it is a minimal crack above her bionic hip and will heal itself. She is already weight bearing but will need therapy in house for an extra couple weeks. So, bad news, GOOD news.
I had a busy day at work and then jumped in the Willys to go do an errand at the far end of the strip. For those of you who do not know, the ‘strip’ is the divided highway through town. The day was perfect and I was scooting along in the fast lane, preparing to turn left. There was a pickup in front of me that I was pacing for speed, a few car lengths behind me in my lane another truck and beside it, a semi. Suddenly, the truck in front of me switched to the right lane and all I could see was a big Dodge Ram’s grill coming toward me. The poor woman driving was on the wrong side of the median. I checked my mirror, slammed on the brakes and raised both arms straight up over my head like goal posts to signal those behind me. Everyone managed to get stopped and she made her way across the traffic and turned left into the mall. I was slow to get going again and the semi came up beside me, tooted his horn and gave me a big thumbs up and wave out his window. I pulled into where my errand was and then when I got back in the jeep to leave, my brakes were frozen. I called my friend to ask what to do and he said he would try to send his son to help. In the meantime, a guy pulled up and was very excited about my ride. Andy was so enamored of my ride that he asked me if I was married. I think he was in that 40s range too which made me smile. He hung out with me for almost an hour while I let her cool down and then I started her up again and all was well. I think there may have been an airlock in the master cylinder. All in all, I thank my motorcycle training to always be aware of my surroundings, the ability to remain calm in a crisis and not to stall her out. I also gave my Dad’s little stuffed dog that travels with me a squeeze of gratitude for all of us being safe in that situation. I feel sorry for that poor lady who made the mistake. She must have been terrified. I should have thought to follow her and make sure she was okay but honestly, I was probably in shock myself.
triumphgal 